My regular readers know that I have a brother and sister. I realize that I have a very special bonding with the both of them and I understand that not all siblings are “that” close to each other. Fair enough.
But what I don’t understand is that some siblings, boys and/or girls, are constantly on war with each other. Constantly arguing and fighting, for what?
My girlfriend Birgit and I have been discussing this, she does not have a brother and/or sister and she envies those who have. And I understand why, because there are no people that close to you than your own siblings. And no, you don’t have to be “experimenting“ with each other to be close, but as far as I experienced it helps for the bounding when you share some secrets, whatever they are.
Fight for peace, fight for your freedom and so on but don’t fight with your siblings for stupid unimportant things. Love them cherish them and they will be there for you whenever you need support or whatever.
To get back to sexual experimenting between siblings.
Seeing each other naked, touching each other and masturbating together is no incest, incest is intercourse within your bloodline. And when this all happens with consent, it is fine. And it is safer to experiment within the safety of a family home than outside with boys/girls you hardly know. But that is only my humble opinion.
What is your experience and opinion about this?